Have you ever had a water explosion you couldn’t identify? Or you wake up at 0 dark early to the sounds of your dog yelping in pain outside?
These are the storms of my life, and both of them required me to wear my rain boots.
There is a saying amongst Pw’s: If something is going to happen that includes waters, it does so when our husbands are away. In my case, every water rescue occurred that way. I want to share two of them with you as I’m sure you can relate. I have had a few waters rescues in my 25 years of marriage.
Water Emergency #1
I heard a loud knock at my front door at 5 am one morning. With Jeff out of town, I created in my mind a madman or ghost coming into my house. I didn’t want to answer the door, so I hid under the covers hoping whoever it was would go away.
A few hours later my neighbors called to tell me that water was spouting out at the corner of the house. It had made a loud noise that startled them out of bed. Apparently, one of our sprinkler heads popped off, hit the roof, and all that water was making its way into our garage ceiling. To make matters worse, I didn’t notice the intensity of the water damage until two days later when Jeff came back home.
Water Emergency #2
Another morning, my boys let our dog out in the backyard. Within minutes of letting her out, I heard loud yelping. Running outside in my pajamas, I saw that a raccoon had attacked my dog and was dragging her out to the water near our boat lift (I later learned that when a raccoon attacks it will take their fight to the water to drown its victim).
Honestly, I had no clue what to do.
My boys, however, thought that shooting the raccoon with a bb gun was the solution. Sure I would shoot my dog rather than her attacker, I suggested to my boys to throw rocks while I grabbed the water hose and aimed it straight at the evil animal. Within 5 minutes, which seemed like an eternity, we managed to scare the raccoon away and free our dog from its snare.
Upon closer inspection, we say that there was minimal damage to Lucy. She was out of breath, had some blood on her paws from the oyster shells in the water, and suffered cuts on her neck from the raccoon’s teeth. In the end, she only needed a few rabies shots and some recovery time to overcome the trauma.
Each of these water emergencies required me to don my rain boots. I gladly put them on as they provided stability and protection during a crisis.
Sully’s rules for emergencies
A few years ago I read the book Highest Duty, by Capt. Chesley “ Sully” Sullenberger. I’m sure you recall the unforgettable landing he and his FO made on the Hudson River.
In the book, he said there are general rules about any aircraft emergency.
1. Maintain aircraft control.
2. Analyze the situation and take proper action
3. Land as soon as conditions permit.
Some pilots have found an easy way to remember these basic rules: Activate, navigate and communicate.
Being married to a man who lives and flies by these rules, has caused me to adopt the same mindset when faced with water emergencies. I will confess there are times where I first panic, scream and maybe cry, but within minutes I have switched gears to:
1. Activate my surroundings and establish what is going on. I have to simultaneously gain control of the situation while at the same time remain level-headed with my emotions and the emotions of those around me.
2. Navigate where it is I need to land as soon as possible. Gather information as to how to find a solution to the problem.
3. Communicate with those around me. Once I’ve assessed the situation and navigated my way to safety, then I need to calmly communicate with others what it is I need help with.
My water challenge rules
Once I’ve followed those rules and have put on my own personal flotation device, then I call my husband without freaking out and explain to him what just happened. Let’s face it our husbands are flying a heavy-duty machine in the sky which requires their full attention. Calling or texting him while he’s flying and yelling, “Mayday! Mayday! “ would only make matters worse.
I will spill out some water guilt, I have called him freaking out about a crisis or emergency, it didn’t make anything better. In fact, it only made me feel like I was drowning all the more. How could I expect him to solve my problem when he was miles away?
Now, when I’m alone and facing a difficult situation, I need to rely on the One who not only walks on water, but can cause it, and my troubled heart, to be still. In water emergencies and more, I find comfort in Philippians 4:13 “I can do all things through Christ who strengths me.”
I have to remind myself that I’m not Superwoman. When I face troubles, pressure, and trials, I should take a moment to pause and ask God to give me strength when it feels like the waters will overtake me. I’m grateful to know He won’t let me drown.
I’m sure we can all share our water stories and how often we find ourselves wearing rain boots. The storms of our lives definitely offer challenges. Though, I would have to say that in those water challenges we find the strength we didn’t know was there. Because of that strength, the next time we step into our rain boots, we can walk with confidence and the right tools.
Our prayer: Dear Father, when stressful times arrive, and I find myself worried and anxious, please give me the peace of mind and calm my troubled heart. I feel as if I’m in a turbulent sea and unable to find my balance, so I worry. Help me to find clarity of mind and answers that I need for Your protection. You are my life vest, and I know that you will guide me as I walk through the stormy waters of life.
In Your name, I pray, Amen.
Take-off and Landings Always, Tiffany
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